Internet dating after divorce
She’s looking for her guy to be interesting, keep her laughing, ask her all about herself, and give her butterflies…all on the first date. That man then makes a poor impression (understandably), and the date is chalked up to another “he just wasn’t right for me” experience.The Wow Me Woman is often single for a very, very long time.She mistrusts men and often blames herself for the rejection she’s felt, believing that she just wasn’t good enough.She says things like “I need him to say he wants a relationship, and then I’ll open up,” or “Once he gets to know me, he probably won’t like me.” The Scaredy Cat may put her guy through lots of tests before she feels confident that he’s truly interested.(They are men, after all.) She won’t get a call from either of these guys and forever wonder why since she thinks she gave him what he wants. After facing my mortality I operate from an uncomfortable & uncommon authenticity.You know that dating after 40 (or at any stage of life, for that matter! When you appreciate the same is true for the men you date, it will go a long way toward building compassion and, in turn, building relationships. With the trends of the grass is greener over there but it’s really a filter saturation of choices I have opted to work on myself.By default, she clings to the same type of guy she wanted in high school or college. (See the Wow Me Woman below.) The nice, relationship-minded men get quickly discarded by the 18-year-old.
Being in a relationship means who do I need to be to nourish another human being partner or child. She hasn’t mastered the life skill of introspection, so she’s blinded by her bitterness.It doesn’t occur to her that she might be the problem even though every date and relationship seems to end the same way.(Guys, if you’re reading this…get in touch if you want to share!
) Below are the common types of women single grownup men have told me about. Read the general description of each here, or start reading more about each Femitype, starting with The Princess — click here.Since trust and affection are what men yearn for from women, he usually does her a favor and leaves…hence rendering her “right” once again.