Sex chat with man
I can never lie to him or hide anything, he always knows when something is up, he wouldn’t leave me alone so I told him I found these pictures of this girl that he must really like, and I saw multiple ones of her-again.
I told him I felt bad that he was looking at the pictures; obviously I’m not what he was looking at.
About a month ago a girl sent him something entitled from your Canadian girls, saying how they hadn’t talked for awhile, he told her he’d been really busy with stuff, said he’d explain later and hoped to see her soon...
4 months ago he received an email from another girl, not sure what she said, but he replied with I’m happily engaged but thank you:),-needless to say that one gave me SOME relief (I saw others where he told them he had a g/f and was just looking for fun, others said "nothing dirty just wanted to chat"..), and the one before that was one month before he asked me to marry him-he told her that he was busy with work and stuff and that he missed her and wanted to say hi you... he describes himself as shy in the beginning but get past that and he’s got a very dirty mind...
4 months before he asked me to marry him he wrote and I quote "awe you left i was gonna say hit me up on yahoo sometime and i’ll show you whatever you like same sn as aff *** take care.... and his ideal match is a woman that’s not afraid to say exactly what she wants. I don’t how often he’s does things-chats, gets on the phone, I don’t even know if he does it anymore... I’m not about to purchase something to hook up to the computer to follow what he does...
Loool.” But with phones having the ability for photos and videos it can get even more steamier (but thats a whole new blog for the future) but for now lets just concentrate on the sex chat.
However, if you are really uncomfortable with what he’s saying, it’s more than fine to end the conversation or change topics to something you enjoy.
If you’re not the potty-mouth type, do try to find “grown-up” words that you’re comfortable with. Have him describe each step first, then coo it back to him — letting him steer the language can take the pressure off you to perform orally. “And they want to know what you like, because they get turned on even more when you’re turned on.” Tell your guy what you’re imagining him doing to you; it’s about your fantasies too and enjoy its with your man and its harmless fun.
Find a place where you can talk or do other things, wink wink lol– in privacy.
Turn out the lights, or fill the bathtub with bubbles — whatever makes you feel less vulnerable and more relaxed with your man.
It bothered me because I didn’t really know, but I got over it and let it go.